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Mapping my social network for recovery

Notice how different contacts affect the change you want, then choose support and safer ways to manage contact.

Written by Tarun Vermani, Trainee Clinical Psychologist Last reviewed

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Start with your own recovery goal, which may include reduced use. Group contacts by how contact affects that goal now, not by whether someone is a good or bad person. A person may fit differently in different settings. Use first names or initials only; do not include addresses, contact details or private information about others. You choose whom to involve and what to share. Do not confront anyone, test yourself around substance use or make a sudden break that could leave you unsafe or isolated. If contact involves threats or control, plan privately with your therapist or service before changing it. This record is not monitored for urgent help. Use your service or local urgent care if needed. If someone in your life frightens, threatens or controls you, don't practise with them. Talk to your therapist first. If you are in danger, call 999. Free domestic abuse helplines, open day and night: in England, the National Domestic Abuse Helpline (run by Refuge) on 0808 2000 247; in Scotland, Scotland's Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline on 0800 027 1234; in Wales, Live Fear Free on 0808 80 10 800; in Northern Ireland, the Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline on 0808 802 1414. This worksheet is for feelings you can manage. If you have urges to hurt yourself, or you feel unsafe, use your safety plan if you have one and tell your therapist. If you might act on the urges, call 999 or go to A&E. To talk to someone now, call Samaritans free on 116 123.

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Your goal and the people around it

Keep this map private. Include professionals or groups if useful; no need to name everyone.

Choose contact and support

Do not send or share this map automatically. Ask each chosen person what they are willing and able to offer.

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When to use ‘Mapping my social network for recovery’

‘Mapping my social network for recovery’ is an interactive cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) worksheet, most often used in CBT for substance misuse.

It is designed to be used within therapy rather than as a standalone self-help tool: a therapist introduces it, works through it collaboratively, and helps make sense of what it surfaces. You can preview the full worksheet above, then assign it digitally for clients to complete between sessions on any device or download it as a print-ready PDF.

How it works

Most people work through it in around 20 minutes. It moves through two short steps:

  1. Your goal and the people around it: Keep this map private. Include professionals or groups if useful; no need to name everyone.
  2. Choose contact and support: Do not send or share this map automatically. Ask each chosen person what they are willing and able to offer.

Completed on the Formulate platform, your client's answers are saved automatically and shared straight back to you, so you can review them before the next session rather than waiting for a paper copy to come back.

The CBT approach behind it

In common with other CBT methods, ‘Mapping my social network for recovery’ works by noticing the links between situations, thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviour and finding practical ways to change unhelpful patterns. The aim is not positive thinking but a clearer, shared understanding of what keeps a difficulty going and practical, testable ways to change it.

Because it is a CBT tool it stays focused on the here-and-now links between thoughts, feelings, the body and behaviour, and it works best as one part of a wider course of therapy rather than as advice or a diagnosis.

Evidence & sources

This worksheet is grounded in established cognitive behavioural therapy theory and practice. Key sources include:

  • National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (2011). Alcohol-use disorders: diagnosis, assessment and management of harmful drinking (high-risk drinking) and alcohol dependence. NICE guideline CG115.
  • UKATT Research Team (2005). Effectiveness of treatment for alcohol problems: findings of the randomised UK alcohol treatment trial (UKATT). BMJ.

For use alongside professional support

Formulate provides educational CBT resources for use with a qualified therapist. They are not a substitute for professional assessment, diagnosis, or crisis care.

If you need urgent help now:

  • Emergency services: 999 — if you or someone else is in immediate danger
  • NHS 111 (NHS 24 in Scotland): 111 — choose the mental health option for urgent help, in England, Scotland and Wales (in Wales, press 2)
  • Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 — for urgent help in Northern Ireland, free, day or night
  • Samaritans: 116 123 — free, day or night, 365 days a year
  • Shout: 85258 — text SHOUT, free, day or night
  • SANEline: 0300 304 7000 — 4pm–10pm, every day

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