Gilbert (2009) · Emotion regulation (transdiagnostic process model)
Gilbert (2009)
Threat System
Protection and safety-seeking
The threat and self-protection system — our alarm for detecting and responding to danger. Emotions: anxiety, anger, disgust. Responses: fight, flight, freeze or submit. Fast, powerful and easily triggered; self-criticism keeps it activated.
Drive System
Wanting, pursuing, achieving
The drive and resource-seeking system — motivation to pursue goals, resources and rewards. Emotions: excitement, vitality, the buzz of achieving and acquiring. Helpful in balance; in overdrive it becomes relentless striving and can be used to manage threat.
Soothing System
Contentment, safety, connection
The soothing, contentment and affiliative system — the felt sense of safeness, calm and connection, linked to care and attachment. Emotions: contentment, peacefulness, feeling soothed by others and able to self-soothe. It helps regulate the threat system and is often underdeveloped in people who are struggling.
The published model, shown for reference. Switch to “Blank” to see the empty template you complete with a client.
Our emotions aren't random — they come from systems in the brain and body that evolved to keep us safe, get us going, and help us feel calm and connected. This model, from compassion-focused therapy, describes three of them and how they balance.
The threat system is our built-in alarm. It scans for danger and, when it fires, brings feelings like anxiety, anger or disgust and urges to fight, flee, freeze or submit. It's fast and powerful because, in evolution, missing a threat was costly.
The drive system motivates us to go after things that matter — achievements, resources, fun — bringing energy, excitement and a buzz when we succeed. The soothing system is different again: it's the feeling of being safe, content and connected, the calm that comes from rest and from warm relationships. It helps settle the threat system down.
Many people in distress have a threat system that's easily triggered and a soothing system that rarely comes online — perhaps because of past experiences, or harsh self-criticism that keeps the alarm ringing. The aim isn't to get rid of any system, but to build the soothing system so the three come back into balance.
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