Skip to main content

Testing less rehearsal before social situations

Compare your usual mental preparation with less rehearsal before similar social situations, while keeping practical preparation and support.

Written by Tarun Vermani, Trainee Clinical Psychologist Last reviewed

Assign and Download open signup, then return you to this worksheet. No card required. Resource access depends on your plan or trial. Already have an account? Sign in

Worksheet preview

Preview
Plan this with your therapist. Compare your usual mental rehearsal before one ordinary social situation with less rehearsal before a similar one. Keep useful practical preparation. Write what you predict, then note what you actually see and hear in each situation. The aim is to learn, not to perform perfectly or make anxiety disappear. Therapist note: Target anticipatory processing in the Clark and Wells model. Agree what counts as rehearsal, what preparation remains and how to attend to the conversation rather than monitor performance.

Live preview — type in any field to try it. Nothing is saved here.

The prediction to test

Rehearsal might mean repeatedly scripting sentences, replaying past mistakes or imagining how you will look. Practical preparation, communication aids and access needs are different.

Agree the comparison

Choose similar, low-stakes situations. Do not rehearse more than usual for the first one. Use a recent usual-rehearsal event if deliberately repeating it would be unhelpful.

Record each situation soon afterwards

Note actual rehearsal, where attention went, what you did and what others said or did. Feelings are worth recording, but are not proof of how you appeared.

What can you take from the comparison?

Changing rehearsal and attention together tests a different approach as a whole. Two situations cannot isolate the cause of a difference or establish what everyone thinks.

Try it here — nothing you type is saved. Sign up to assign it and let clients complete it on any device.

When to use ‘Testing less rehearsal before social situations’

‘Testing less rehearsal before social situations’ is an interactive cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) worksheet, most often used in CBT for social anxiety.

It is designed to be used within therapy rather than as a standalone self-help tool: a therapist introduces it, works through it collaboratively, and helps make sense of what it surfaces. You can preview the full worksheet above, then assign it digitally for clients to complete between sessions on any device or download it as a print-ready PDF.

How it works

Most people work through it in around 20 minutes. It moves through four short steps:

  1. The prediction to test: Rehearsal might mean repeatedly scripting sentences, replaying past mistakes or imagining how you will look. Practical preparation,…
  2. Agree the comparison: Choose similar, low-stakes situations. Do not rehearse more than usual for the first one. Use a recent usual-rehearsal event if…
  3. Record each situation soon afterwards: Note actual rehearsal, where attention went, what you did and what others said or did. Feelings are worth recording, but are not proof of…
  4. What can you take from the comparison? Changing rehearsal and attention together tests a different approach as a whole. Two situations cannot isolate the cause of a difference or…

Completed on the Formulate platform, your client's answers are saved automatically and shared straight back to you, so you can review them before the next session rather than waiting for a paper copy to come back.

The CBT approach behind it

In common with other CBT methods, ‘Testing less rehearsal before social situations’ works by noticing the links between situations, thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviour and finding practical ways to change unhelpful patterns. The aim is not positive thinking but a clearer, shared understanding of what keeps a difficulty going and practical, testable ways to change it.

Because it is a CBT tool it stays focused on the here-and-now links between thoughts, feelings, the body and behaviour, and it works best as one part of a wider course of therapy rather than as advice or a diagnosis.

Evidence & sources

This worksheet is grounded in established cognitive behavioural therapy theory and practice. Key sources include:

  • Clark, D. M., & Wells, A. (1995). A cognitive model of social phobia. In R. G. Heimberg, M. R. Liebowitz, D. A. Hope, & F. R. Schneier (Eds.), Social Phobia: Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment. Guilford Press.
  • Bennett-Levy, J., Butler, G., Fennell, M., Hackmann, A., Mueller, M., & Westbrook, D. (Eds.) (2004). Oxford Guide to Behavioural Experiments in Cognitive Therapy. Oxford University Press.

For use alongside professional support

Formulate provides educational CBT resources for use with a qualified therapist. They are not a substitute for professional assessment, diagnosis, or crisis care.

If you need urgent help now:

  • Emergency services: 999 — if you or someone else is in immediate danger
  • NHS 111 (NHS 24 in Scotland): 111 — choose the mental health option for urgent help, in England, Scotland and Wales (in Wales, press 2)
  • Lifeline: 0808 808 8000 — for urgent help in Northern Ireland, free, day or night
  • Samaritans: 116 123 — free, day or night, 365 days a year
  • Shout: 85258 — text SHOUT, free, day or night
  • SANEline: 0300 304 7000 — 4pm–10pm, every day

More Social Anxiety worksheets

View all Social Anxiety worksheets →

Want to assign this to a client?

Create a free therapist account to use the homework and library download tools. Clients can complete assigned homework online or use a blank PDF. See how the homework workflow works.

No card required. The Free plan includes 10 worksheet uses a month. Check plan access and limits.